Direction

Giving Direction to children involves both training of character traits (eg – honesty, integrity, generosity, etc), relational skills, and the development of the child’s unique gifts and skills.

Well directed children grow up knowing they are gifted by God, and with a sense of purpose about using those gifts to benefit others. They are other-centered. They have a clear sense of right and wrong, and are internally motivated to do right.

Poorly directed kids are often aimless. Their achievements are primarily self-serving, and they have an unstable sense of right and wrong. They can be difficult to trust, and are easily discouraged when life gets difficult.

Giving Solid Direction

The following principles are keys to giving good Direction:

• Talk often about your life and values.
• Exemplify the behaviors and values you desire in your children.
• Affirm “whatever is praiseworthy”.
• Create opportunities for you children to use their skills in meaningful ways.
• Help your children by gracefully coming along side them when they are struggling.
Notice and remember the acronym TEACH!




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